Should I Marry Someone I Am Not Attracted To?
This Question brings to mind Two schools of thoughts.
Some Say Yes, You May Marry Someone You’re Not Initially Attracted to. Others Say No, it is Risky to Marry someone you’re not attracted to, this simply won’t do. You will need to be more careful considering who you are going to marry and why you are marrying them.
Let us probe further into this and find out some Pointers to which, the answer could be Both or Just one of the Above considering the Circumstances.
Let us take it from the Yes angle.
You see, men and women do this every day and miss out on solid mates as a result. For instance, she writes him off because he’s immature. He doesn’t have a great job. He’s a little chubby. He’s too introverted. He dresses weirdly.
He writes her off because “there’s no spark.” She’s not intellectually stimulating enough. She’s too career oriented. She’s too tall. She wears mom jeans (or plus-size jeans aby you know…Ha!) or that She’s too clingy. The truth is, so much of the stuff men and women reflexively use as the yardstick for attractiveness has so little to do with the real nuts and bolts of a good marriage.